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Phyllis Ann Wester

October 10, 2021

The Wester Family sadly announces the peaceful passing of the family matriarch, Phyllis Ann Wester, 91, on September 20, 2021. At her request, Phyllis will be cremated and a memorial service will be scheduled sometime in the spring of 2022 when larger indoor gatherings become safer. She will be laid to rest beside her late husband, Gordon, at the Nezperce-Russell City Cemetery at that time.

Phyllis was born in Bonners Ferry to Joseph and Goldie Neumayer, the youngest of six. Growing up in the north Idaho panhandle during the Great Depression made for a tough but educational childhood. Her parents owned several acres of land on the north side of the Kootenai River and the family lived a self-sufficient lifestyle raising and preserving much of their own food.

The family lovingly would say that mom learned early in life to squeeze the most out of a nickel that even Thomas Jefferson squealed. She had the benefit of being the baby of the family so there was always an older sibling to look out for her needs.

In school she enjoyed being a member of the Bonners Ferry High School band. Her first job as a teenager was that of an usher at the Rex Theatre. These experiences fostered a lifelong love of vintage Hollywood movies and Big Band music.

Upon graduation Phyllis made her way to Lewiston, where she attended business and secretarial classes and eventually found employment at the Nez Perce County health district offices.

Somewhere along the way she met a handsome young student from the town of Nezperce at North Idaho Teachers College. Gordon Gregg Wester and she were married in Bonners Ferry in 1950 and became a family of three soon thereafter.

Circumstances of employment lead the couple from Lewiston to Seattle, Edmonds, Moses Lake, Colville, Newport, Spokane, Wapato, Yakima and finally Spokane again.

Along the way she managed a household of five children, mother-in-law, various dogs, cats, parakeets, hamsters and other wildlife young children manage to bring home. She did all this while being a homemaker, cashier and eventually an elementary school para-educator late in her working life.

She and Gordon enjoyed gardening and antiquing and spent many days in retirement traveling with fellow Holiday Rambler RV owners around the country and being snowbirds. Service to the community was second nature to them through the United States Jaycees, Lions Club, Elks and Moose Lodges.

Mom filled our world with special joy. She usually had a sunny disposition and certainly a heart of gold for her family and friends. Mom made life so much brighter by just being thoughtful and saying kind and helpful things.

She and dad enjoyed going out to Sunday brunch, mostly because then she did not have to cook. Phyllis never forgot a grandchild's birthday or significant event and she welcomed spouses and children of blended families with the equality of a natural born. Mom always had a box full of toys in the house for grand children to play with.

She is preceded in death by her husband of 47 years, Gordon, herr parents, brothers Edward and Larry, sisters Lorena and Luella, and grandchildren Zachery and Liv.

Phyllis is survived by her brother George; sons Michael (Nancy), Douglas (Leslie), Steven (Angie), daughters Debera (Richard) and Carla (Jeff) and she is remembered fondly by 14 grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers please make a donation in her name to the Vanessa Behan Crisis Nursery, 2230 E. Sprague Avenue, Spokane, WA, 99202. The Neptune Society, 98 E Francis Avenue, Spokane, is entrusted with arrangements.
"He who learns must suffer. And even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair,
against our will,  comes wisdom through the awful grace of God."


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Mike Weland, Publisher  

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P.O. Box 1625
Bonners Ferry, ID 83805
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